I just found out last evening that my husband is trying to arrange a meeting with someone. My granddaughter, 8 years old, was on the computer and the printer just spit out a copy of their e-mails. Three years ago he had an affair with a co-worker, they are elementary teachers, for gods sake. He is an alcoholic who has been sober for 1 year but now sex is his new addiction. I've had it with the cheating liar. I don't care what it is called, I don't care what the reasons are, I don't care if there is treatment, I don't care if there is "hope" for our marriage, I'm outa here.