I am in my early twenties and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. My boyfriend has porn on his computer, and mobile phone. I haven’t really had a problem with his porn because I know that he gets so much satisfaction from our sex life that he doesn’t need it. However we have a long distance relationship so understand if he was to use it to relieve some sexual tension. Am I wrong for thinking that? Am I allowing him to create a really bad habbit? I just think that I would prefer him to watch abit of porn than go cheat on me, and if I say I wont allow porn in our relationship then he would proberly just keep it a secret, and I would prefer him being honest! I have been feeling really confused because I have come to believe through everything he has told me and even guys I know, that guys usually think with there cock and that once that blood starts pumping through there cock there is no turning back! I have come to think that all guys are like that, and all guys watch porn! I mean most film clips you watch have practically naked chicks anyway..right! I myself am a very sexual person, and connect a lot with my boyfriend through sex, but after reading all these comments about women who have been in these relationships for 20 years and more, I don’t want to end up in those types of relationships with a husband, cheating and lying! He isn't interested in swingers clubs, so I don't think he is interested in being physical with other girls, but is my being so accepting creating someone who will only get worse if they get older? I can be a very vengful person and think that he knows if he wanted to sleep with somone else I would just take him to a swingers club and sleep with someone too. Not because I need to but just so we are equal. I think because he dosn't want any other man to touch me he dosn't want to do such thing. Please help. Thanks. Julia