I am having a real problem dealing with the love of my life, trying to get over his addiction issues. He has put everything out in the open already and promises to not lie about things. Yet the cycle never ends. When do you say enough is enough. We live seperately now and I do not want to make "us" work if he continues down this path. He says he is seeking help. But I am at a point that his words mean nothing to me. I want action. When can I know he is for real or just playing games with me. He claims he hates this and himself for doing this. Yet he keeps doing it? I do love him but not to sure he means anything he is saying. Please help